This simple exercise and example will give you some insight into how you define yourself. A strong self-identity will clarify your path in life and provide you with insight to bring laser-focus to your goals.
- List a few ways in which you self-identify. Who are you?
- Think about what causes you to behave in these certain ways.
Let me use my statement to illustrate a point: I identify as an executive coach of color who is curious why some people gravitate toward me while others retreat.
I didn’t start with this statement. It took some thought and a lesson from a stranger. Here’s what happened: I used to identify as a coach. I would tell people, “I am a coach.” Then one day I overheard a European visitor in the US talking and he used the phrase “I do coaching.” At that moment, it occurred to me that I Am a human being, not a human doing. I changed my identity to be someone who does executive coaching and rethought my identity as an “I AM” statement.