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Let’s say, for example, that you grew up with some challenges. You could look at your story in one of two ways. Either you are resentful that you didn’t have all of the advantages you felt you should have, OR you picked yourself up, brushed off the dust and moved forward in the face of adversity.
Same circumstances, yet two different stories can emerge. It’s all in the way you tell your story. An example is when I tell the story of visiting the family farm and accompanying my grandmother to gather eggs. It was the event I learned that one must take risks to move ahead in life. Told differently, it could also convey the importance of listening to your elders.
I encourage you to take some time to think about how you present your story to others/your audience. Is your story holding you back, or is it propelling you forward?
Here are some thoughts to get you thinking about your story:
- How did you get to where you are today?
- What traumas or triumphs have you experienced?
- Who was your inspiration?
- Why did you choose this career path?
- Why should I listen to you?
No one has the same story – use this to your advantage – to bring a unique perspective to your leadership role.
“Leadership is autobiographical. If I don’t know your life story, I don’t know a thing about you as a leader.”
-Noel Tichy
If you are struggling in your role, defining your story can be a catalyst for change. It can unlock deeper relationships and unearth untapped resources.